anothersis
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Betty (Anothersis)
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Post by anothersis on Apr 5, 2009 15:43:11 GMT -5
I have begun a new battle with melanoma, which has recently been located in a groin lymph node. A needle biopsy revealed the melanoma that I had removed from my foot a few years ago is now hiding in a lymph node. I am now awaiting a call to let me know the scheduling of a CT scan. After that, surgery will be next.
This is my third bout with cancer, the first being my breast cancer which was diagnosed in 2002. I thought that was the beast to worrry about. But, this one has a new face and has made its appearance.
I am frightened, but hopeful and I have my faith in God. I know I have family and friends pulling for me. I am staying positive and have been doing a lot of thinking, wandering around our yard looking at the flowers, still keeping my granddaughters a couple days a week. It is bittersweet being with them. They are so special to me.
Love you all, Betty (Anothersis)
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Post by Ruth on Apr 6, 2009 19:10:22 GMT -5
Betty,
I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear this news...........but, I am keeping you in my prayers and am hopeful that modern science and G-d will find a way............There are so many things out there now-a-days that are miracles........I'm hoping and praying for one for you................
I remember your beautiful garden, from our old FITCT site, and I'm positive you are finding comfort just wandering through your many paths..............
Girlfriend, please know that I am here for you...anytime you need me......Write to me, or if you want to talk in person, let me know and I'll send you my number.............You are a very special friend and I'm here for you.
Love, Ruth
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Post by sherrie on Apr 6, 2009 19:21:08 GMT -5
Betty, I can only imagine how you are feeling right now. The bitter sweet thought you posted about being with your granddaughters really touched my heart as I remember how I felt when I was dx with the breast cancer and only had the one grandbaby (our sweet Charity) at the time. I fought to beat this monster to be able to watch that little girl grow up. She was only 7 months old at the time, she'll be 10 years old this year. So girlfriend, I'm praying with you that you too will fight hard and that you too will get to see those 2 precious grands of yours grow up too. Love, Sherrie
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babe
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Post by babe on Apr 8, 2009 18:57:40 GMT -5
Betty, I can only give you a cyber hug! I know exactly what you are feeling this moment. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang on to God as He wraps His arms around you!
Love n hugs, Babe
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anothersis
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Betty (Anothersis)
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Post by anothersis on Apr 9, 2009 19:13:26 GMT -5
Thanks everyone! I can feel your concern, your strength and your warmth. I am still waiting, since my Onc went on vacation for a week and did NOT tell the Scheduler in his office to schedule my PET scan. I called and was shocked to find this out! You really have to look out for yourself and followup. We all must remember to be aggressive in that area. This error has cost me a week's delay, at least! I hope to hear soon now.
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skeeterpie
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I wish you joy,doing your best each day, and knowing you are thought of.
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Post by skeeterpie on Apr 12, 2009 16:55:01 GMT -5
Betty, I have not been on in awhile. I have had the flu, then I just got it again somewhat, dizzy, aching and just very tired. I had to write though, I did not know you have had this beast visit you again. I am so sorry, but one thing I know, if there is anyone with an upbeat and positive and strong faith attitude, it is you! I will be praying for you, you keep us posted and I will try and work on getting acquainted with this site some more. I find it a lot more harder to move around in than the other one, but maybe I just need to work at it more. Thinking of you today Betty, Skeeter
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Post by cara3 on Apr 13, 2009 15:59:44 GMT -5
Betty,
This is only a "setback" to "review life's lessons" (I am sure you have seen the Survivor Movie). Cancer is a part of our lives now but it is not our life. You are special and I always look forward to your posts. As far as the "bittersweet", I have experienced that this week with my father. I am praying for you as I write this post.
May God protect and surround you, dear sister.
Kitty
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Post by gaynelleorbunny on Apr 21, 2009 23:03:54 GMT -5
Dearest Betty, I am SADDENED that you are fighting the HORRID BEAST again. I hope by now you have had that PET SCAN by now. You are an INSPIRATION to us all and I am going to be sending you POSITIVE THOUGHTS & COVERING you with PRAYERS 24/7. Please come back and give us an UPDATE when you can. GOD BLESS you! KEEP THRIVIN' & SURVIVIN'! E-bunny & butterfly ((hugs)),
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anothersis
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Betty (Anothersis)
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Post by anothersis on Apr 22, 2009 18:35:34 GMT -5
Thank you all sweet ladies! I had the PET Scan and received a call today from my Oncologist. The melanoma is in the lymph node I can feel and also in some others near that site. There was no other evidence of spread beyond that point of the melanoma. And also, it did not show any breast cancer. I am almost sure surgery is the next step. I am awaiting another call from my surgeon, when he finishes his review of the scan.
I knew the melanoma danger and had looked on the internet to find that this disease in the foot or legs returns 50% of the time. I was hoping to be forturnate enough to skip that step. Now cancer has entered my life again I can only do my best to stay calm and focused. I will have to say during the PET Scan, I was thinking of you all and how you want the best for me and how we are all connected. It helped me to get through that test! We are all facing battles in various stages and it can weigh heavily, but the love we have can never be extinguished and the hope is still there.
Love, Betty
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Post by sherrie on Apr 23, 2009 18:47:33 GMT -5
Betty, you remain in my thoughts and prayers and will remain there til we hear the words "all clear"! Love you, Sherrie
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skeeterpie
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I wish you joy,doing your best each day, and knowing you are thought of.
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Post by skeeterpie on Apr 23, 2009 19:15:50 GMT -5
Just read your post Betty and again I say: God bless you in every area of your life as you travel this journey again. May He give you the ADDED strengh and courage to face each day as you go to the dr. and etc. Hugs, Sharon
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Post by julie on Apr 23, 2009 21:08:07 GMT -5
My heartfelt prayers are with you, Betty. Please keep us posted on your diagnosis..... And remember, we are JUST a click away..... Love you soooo much (as my grandson says; TO THE MOON AND BACK). Julie
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Post by Ruth on Apr 24, 2009 9:30:53 GMT -5
Betty,
Please let us know just as soon as you hear something from the doctor..........I've had you on my mind all week.
Remember, we are here for you.
Love, Ruth
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Post by Mary on Apr 26, 2009 9:01:03 GMT -5
Dear Betty, I have been away from the site for a while, and was very dismayed to read your news. However, I echo what everyone here has already told you --- my love, my thoughts, my prayers, and my hugs through this site are with you! I will be waiting to hear what the next step of treatment for you will be, and am praying that you will get the "all clear" signal when it's finished.... Lots of love, Mary
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Post by nanakaren64 on Apr 28, 2009 17:46:07 GMT -5
Dear Betty ~ I am so sorry to read that cancer has entered your life once again! As I haven't been on here much lately, I just now read your post. Your strong faith plus hope and love will carry you through this. Know that many prayers are being said for you. Please keep us posted. Love, Karen
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